Relationships and Dating - How Hard Should You Work on a Relationship That is Not Working?

How many times have you asked that question to yourself only to ask yourself the following question? Is this relationship worth all my effort? There must be some kind of enjoyment that come from a relationship before you can consider the worth or lack of. It is important to consider not only all that may be wrong but on the other hand anything that may be right. Time that two people spend together must have some rewarding value to it to give it some worth.

Work does not always make a relationship better but some people particularly women will continue working on theirs in the hopes that it will. It is something to consider that working on a relationship is not the same as doing what works to build one. Working on the commitment in most cases only pouts you in a position of compromising yourself and what you want just to hang on. A true commitment between a man and a woman is something that you can gain value from. You can have a the relationship of your dreams when you begin to spend time enjoying it instead of always working on it.

One question you must ask yourself is, "Is this the relationship that I really want"? Your answer will determine the level of commitment you are willing to give this area of your life. There are some sacrifices that will be made to create the romantic vision that you have with your partner. Women especially have these types of dreams but settle for much less just to be in the presence of their man. But why settle when you can have what you want without so much work?

Learn not to invest in short term rewards and instead expect long term results from your relationship. Choosing someone somewhere in the "ballpark" will leave you rationalizing and regretting the choices you made. Just because your boyfriend or girlfriend meets your basic requirements or there is an instant attraction does not mean they are the makings for a successful relationship. Take time to grow into the relationship and if and when the water gets rough, take another look at the changes that are happening. Realize, ladies,that your boyfriend who is now your husband probably did not change. You must look at the big picture instead of your immediate puzzled piece you thought you needed in the moment.

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